Recreational softball is about more than wins and losses—it’s about teaching kids teamwork, confidence, and having fun. Parents play a huge role in shaping the atmosphere on the field. Here are a few simple ways to make the sidelines a positive place for every player.
Cheer for All Players
- Celebrate great plays no matter which team makes them.
- Loud, positive encouragement (“Great swing!” or “Nice hustle!”) goes a long way.
- Keep criticism off the field—kids learn best when they feel supported.
Respect Coaches and Umpires
- Remember: Coaches and umpires are volunteers giving their time.
- If you disagree with a call or decision, stay calm and let the coaches handle it.
- Modeling respect teaches kids how to handle conflict with maturity.
Focus on Effort, Not Just Results
- Praise hustle, teamwork, and good attitudes as much as hits or runs.
- This helps players stay motivated, even when the game doesn’t go their way.
Keep it Fun
- Avoid yelling instructions from the stands—too many voices can overwhelm players.
- Let kids play, make mistakes, and learn without added pressure.
- Save post-game conversations for encouragement (“I loved how hard you tried today!”).
Be a Role Model
- Your behavior sets the tone for your child and the team.
- Show sportsmanship by shaking hands, congratulating the other team, and keeping the energy positive.
🥎 Quick Tip: Ask yourself, “Would I want someone saying this to my child?” If the answer is no, it’s best to keep it to yourself.
GYGSA enforces a strict zero-tolerance policy regarding unsportsmanlike conduct. Spectators exhibiting inappropriate behavior will be removed.